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Post by leapinglizards on Mon Mar 26, 2012 5:14 pm

So, I sure can use hugs, prayers and wishes. My spouse of 8 years and I have split as of today. It is probably best for both of us in the long run... but it is still very saddening that it could not have worked out anotehr way, and I miss my dogs. At 43- learning to cook for 1 again may be hard.

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Post by SuzySparkles on Mon Mar 26, 2012 5:28 pm

sorry Sad Maybe you will meet someone else who makes every day feel like the best day ever Smile

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Post by Taradoodles on Mon Mar 26, 2012 6:59 pm

Sorry. Whenever you cook now youll just have a day off from cooking the next day by eating leftovers. good luck in the heart department. -hugs-
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Post by martha on Mon Mar 26, 2012 7:20 pm

Is there no chance of salvaging the relationship?
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Post by Misha on Mon Mar 26, 2012 7:52 pm

((hugs)) Sometimes letting go is the best thing for us esp. when it hurts. Sending good thoughts your way! Don't forget to -bump-this thread if you need more support down the road.
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Post by Tash on Mon Mar 26, 2012 8:27 pm

oh no.
*sigh* you would think it gets easier as we get older but sometimes people just grow apart.
I have been with my partner for 17 years this year. It gets harder and harder and I have caught myself wondering if it would be better for both of us to be apart. You can only stay unhappy for so long.
Missing your pets ontop makes it so much harder - nothing like a furry cuddle to make you feel better.
It will get easier and I"m sure you'll find a new perspective and new energy to make your life more about happiness and less about compromise and arguments.
Two people sharing a life forever is hard work.... you don't know what the future holds but I am sure you will both be in each others hearts forever, even if you can no longer be in the same house.
xxx
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Post by Manabanana on Mon Mar 26, 2012 8:56 pm

Thinking of you. Hugs and prayers. I know I've been there (still am) It gets better with time and when you least expect it, you're happy all over again.

sending warm wishes to you.
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Post by Katurah on Mon Mar 26, 2012 9:12 pm

So sorry to hear ;( best of luck for both of you!
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Post by ChangingFaceDesigns on Mon Mar 26, 2012 9:38 pm

Dean, sometimes when we are in a relationship, especiallyone that has lasted for a long period of time, you can lose a big part of yourself for the sake of that relationship. If there is a balance of give and take and real sharing between the two parties you usually don't seem to mind or in most cases it doesn't matter because what you give up freely you get back in so many other ways. But..............

When the relationship takes a turn where the scales are out of balance and you feel like you are the only one sacrificing for he good of the relationship, it can weigh you down to the point where it can begin to manifest itself in other forms such as reckless behavior, depression, physical ailments and so on.

I don't profess to know what has led you to the decision that has been made, and I will only say take the time you need to properly grieve what has been lost but be very careful not to dwell in what was or what could have been. that is a long road with seemingly no end.

Take this time to rediscover who DEAN is and what DEAN has to offer. Don't look at cooking for one as some kind of pennance but take this time to venture into cooking things you've always wanted to try. This is a period of exploration, reconnecting, re-energizig, recommitting, discovery of all the wonderful things that make you, YOU.

I remain,

Tamara
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Post by Psalmbook on Fri Mar 30, 2012 8:22 am

So sorry... I'm praying for God to give you peace & an awesome future!

fyi: www.allrecipes.com is amazing for learning to cook.
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Post by debranewmanart on Fri Mar 30, 2012 10:45 am

Take time to grieve for your relationship. It is just as important as taking time to grieve for a loved one or a special pet. It will be at least a year and probably more before you will feel completely whole and strong again. Use any extra time to do good things for yourself. Baby yourself a bit..things will get better. At somepoint you will forget most of what you are feeling now.

I have been divorced now for 8 years...I rarely even think of when I was married or the breakup...there are too many other wonderful things to occupy my time!

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Post by Becky521 on Sat Mar 31, 2012 1:55 pm

Too many people I know are going through this right now, and it breaks my heart. I don't know you yet, but my thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Post by TheGildedCat on Sat Mar 31, 2012 2:00 pm

It can be so complicated when you love someone but can no longer like who they are. I'm thinking positive thoughts for you.
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Post by leapinglizards on Sat Mar 31, 2012 2:13 pm

Thank you all, as always. Richard came and got the rest of his things today, but brought back the dogs as I decided I wanted to try and handle them by myself. So far, having them back has been theaputic.

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Post by EileenF on Sat Mar 31, 2012 3:26 pm

I'm new on here and haven't spoken with you, but my heart goes out to you. You can have a piece of mine til yours gets better! I'm going through some of the worst times myself and I'm here if you need to throw it out there to someone. I came on here to get some encouragement towards staying strong and possibly doing this for part of my living.Nice to meet you. And yes, dogs help mend broken hearts! Things fall apart for better things to piece together!

Hang in there!
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Post by leapinglizards on Mon Apr 02, 2012 7:39 pm

And now, my eldest kitty can is dying. I expect she will pass tonight. Last night, the other cats all layed around her on the bed and kept her warm. I'd rather not see what ELSE can happen.

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Post by martha on Mon Apr 02, 2012 7:45 pm

I am so sorry to hear about your cat as well! My animals are my babies and it's always hard to lose one.
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Post by leapinglizards on Mon Apr 02, 2012 8:10 pm

She is burried in the garden now, under a bird bath. Her spirit can chase the birdies!

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Post by Manabanana on Mon Apr 02, 2012 8:40 pm

I am so incredibly sorry to hear of your string of events. I will continue to keep you and your babies in my thoughts and prayers.

You will get through this. What doesn't kill us only makes us stronger.
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Post by Miss Ronnie on Tue Apr 03, 2012 12:11 am

Oh Dean..... Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad

Thinking of you I love you
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