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Post by Forest-Fairy on Sun May 03, 2015 4:32 am

So i had a big argument with Aryn today over something stupid. I like to decorate the house tasefullyyou see, in the kitchen i have hanging plants in the windows. Well he decided that hanging a large siv and sauce screan from the top of the window looked great and argued it was also closer to the stove, so therefore it was also more functional.

But to me it looked ugly and covered my lovely plants. I suggested moving it to another area that was the same distance from the stove but not in the window covering my plants. But he didn't want to change it.

We argued for an hour. I'm vigorous about staying on topic when debating. When he wasn't winning he went into personal attacks, then wouldn't let me speak. Then made hand gestures rolling his fingers like "hurry up". I told him it was rude and to stop but he didn't. So it made me cry. The whole thing. He can't even let me have this one little thing to make me happy,
, and moving them to a different spot the same distance away isn't good enough. He's sleeping on the couch tonight. I'm just crying because he made me so upset. Sad Sad Sad
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Re: couples quarrels

Post by Kal on Sun May 03, 2015 6:20 am

Men.
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Post by pattyofurniture on Sun May 03, 2015 9:33 am

Crying or Very sad
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Post by amylady222 on Sun May 03, 2015 10:28 am

so sorry!
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Post by LittleMonsters on Sun May 03, 2015 3:41 pm

Kal wrote:Men.

Hey now...
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Post by jlirie on Sun May 03, 2015 4:59 pm

sorry to hear it became a serious disagreement. seems like it could have been a pretty straightforward compromise.

do you think it was just about the sieve, or maybe there's an underlying issue, like aryn feels he doesn't usually have a say in these kinds of decisions? maybe you guys could talk about it (but not argue).
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Post by amylady222 on Mon May 04, 2015 12:48 am

hows it going today?
hope better!
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Post by Forest-Fairy on Mon May 04, 2015 2:49 am

We usually don't argue. Like 92% of the time we agree or compromise, but we also give and take. Something like this is rare for us.
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Post by PixiePaintrix on Mon May 04, 2015 8:47 am

Hugs! Arguments suck
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Post by anniel on Mon May 04, 2015 9:45 am

Makeups are fun....
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Post by LittleMonsters on Mon May 04, 2015 6:07 pm

anniel wrote:Makeups are fun....

lol!
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Re: couples quarrels

Post by Captain-Savvy on Mon May 04, 2015 6:18 pm

*big hugs*
My husband and I rarely argue too, so when we do it's really upsetting.
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